Mom Leaves Note On “Disrespectful” Son’s Door, And Now It’s Going Viral
Heidi Johnson of Temple, Arizona, came up with a novel strategy to deal with her son Aaron’s (then thirteen years old) disdain for and lack of interest in his schoolwork. She proceeded to leave him a long message on his door following his assertion that he was exempt from home duties due to his profits from YouTube. The paper detailed a hypothetical “bill” for living costs, which included $116 for rent, $21 for internet, $150 for food, as well as duties and a $30 maid fee for any unfinished chores.
To Aaron, Given that I am the parent and you appear to have forgotten that you are thirteen years old…The note from Johnson stated, “I suppose you will need a lesson in independence,” highlighting the weight of Aaron’s mindset and the obligations that accompany his sense of autonomy.
The internet has different feelings about this tough-love strategy. Although some thought Johnson’s approaches were excessively severe, others praised her for establishing accountability. “I wrote him a ‘bill’ to make a point,” Johnson said, defending her position. Effort is essential. In the long run, someone will have to give up something.
There has been more discussion about parenting, accountability, and getting kids ready for adulthood since Johnson’s tale went viral. The email concludes with a little nudge in the direction of her love and authority, highlighting the delicate balancing act of parenting.
